Sunday, April 29, 2012

"Nanny Express": A Spring Rerun

As all y'all know, I'm loathe to use too many reruns.

Reruns are as creative as bringing a store purchased Jello Ring to Thanksgiving dinner.

However, Christine and I spent the afternoon/early evening at my cousin Rick and his wife Patty's place in Long Point, MD.

Don't be embarrassed if you're not familiar with where Long Point, MD is.

Just get out your handy AAA Road Atlas and find Hack's Point, MD.

As you can now see, Long Point is a suburb of the Hack's Point metropolitan area.

All kidding aside, I had a personal item belonging to Rick's late father I wanted to get to him.

Rick had a ton of old family pictures he wanted me to see.

More on the visit tomorrow, for now please enjoy one of my all time favorite parody blogs.

Until the next time, all y'all take care of yourselves.

Air Traffic Mike, ret.

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Let's face it, one of the most difficult decisions a parent (or parents) can make is child care. Back in the 1960's it was a given that most Mom's were stay at home Moms.

Mine was.

Well, at least until I was 12. That year Mom got her first job. She got a part time job at the elementary school my two younger brothers and I attended.

We couldn't get away with "Jack Squat".

Thanks Mom.

Now I'm not a parent so far as I know. However, recently a couple of my friends became first time parents. Unfortunately, they are both in their thirties and have busy careers. He holds an executive position and she is mid level accountant. Or was. She opted out of work and started an accounting business at home. She assumed that would give her time to be a "stay at home Mommy" while still bringing in a decent check.

She couldn't have been more wrong. In an eight hour period where you have eight hours of Mommying to do plus eight hours of accounting work to do something has to give.

They decided on a day Nanny. They are fortunate. They have the means to be able to do so. Many have to use professional day care or private baby sitters to make it work.

The problem with the above is level of service. A day Nanny has but one task and that is to see to the needs of the child. Any reputable Nanny has had some professional training and should come with excellent references. They should also be bonded and insured. They are expensive.

Day care provider's too, should have some professional training. They are monitored by the state and county, but due to volume there will those with less training and experience. There is a risk of "fly by night" operations. Furthermore, with your child surrounded by all those other children, the chance of your baby getting sick increases exponentially. Volume helps keep costs down, but the infrastructure and insurance expenses still keep the price relatively high.

Private baby sitters usually have no training other than being a young Mom or some girl. Working out of their home keeps costs low. Rarely licensed or insured, you risk some exposure legally. Without government supervision, abuses may take place. In this model, you're really acting on faith.

Where many see problems, we here at Air Traffic Mike Heavy Industries, LLC. (the social think tank of Air Traffic Mike), we see solutions.

What if you could take the quality of a Nanny, merge in the volume savings of a day care center, and using Fred Smith's FedEx model for efficiency, cut the price to that of a baby sitter?

Ladies and Gentlemen welcome to:

Air Traffic Mike's Nanny Express

Here's how it works. You call Nanny Express. We drop off one of our patented "NanEx Baby Boxes". They have everything you need to get the kid out the door for the day. Take a look at it. It is a masterpiece. It comes fully assembled with a generous amount of air holes to facilitate breathing. Take note of the pacifier dangling from the lid. Feel the plush, super absorbent lining on the floor. You say, "Air Traffic Mike, baby poop is the foulest substance known to mankind and babies make lots of it. What about the smell?" Don't worry. That super absorbent padding has a layer of charcoal and baking soda. A chili/beer fart doesn't stand a chance against it. It'll smell as fresh as a daisy no matter HOW ambitious the child gets. What color is your baby's nursery? It doesn't matter. The "NanEx Baby Box" comes in all colors. Before you can say anything, I already know that babies have to eat. If you look carefully to the left you can see the feeding station. The "BoobTube" feeding system, a patented product of NanEX, accommodates breast milk, water, juices, and pablum. Please fill out the "Needs" section of the shipping form to advise us of your baby's nourishment reqirements.

"Shipping form? Air Traffic Mike, did you say SHIPPING FORM"?

Oh yeah! The entire purpose is to give the parents and baby some time apart. Insert the baby into the NanEx Baby Box (with generous air holes), place the safety seal over the seam, and drop it off at the nearest NanEx pick up point. We monitor the stations for activity and will be there for pick up no later than 10 minutes after you drop the box off. 11 minutes or later and we'll give you an official NanEx "Certificate of Apology".

Now THAT's corporate responsibility!

After pick up, the NanEx PRAM (People Running AMok) truck will whisk your beloved off to the airport! Scientific studies prove that babies LOVE airports!

This is where the fun really begins. Your baby(safely in the NanEx Baby Box complete with generous air holes) is loaded onto the NanEx plane standing by at the nearest airport. Your baby will be flown to the NanEx super hub located in lovely Blytheville, Arkansas at the former Eaker AFB. Scientific studies prove that babies love old SAC bases! Nothing but the best for our customers.

The baby crates are then off loaded lovingly by our famous "NanEx Uncles" and delivered to the sorting machine. What fun it is to be flying around the sorting belts, spinning and bouncing along! Screams of laughter and joy from every box!

The babies, now having been sorted by size, age, and needs are taken to their temporary day center. The boxes are gently opened by our highly trained "MomEx" associates (contract Mommies out on work release). Scientific studies prove that babies can't read rap sheets. Here at ATM's Nanny Express we understand that even babies need to stretch their legs! Besides, scientific studies prove that babies love being outside. And outside it is. Every baby will get no less than three hours out on the tarmac. Scientific studies prove that babies like to visit. We give them that chance.

"Air Traffic Mike, what about the heavy equipment and airplanes moving about?" I'm glad you asked. We're not fools here at NanEX. Every truck, tug, van, and PRAM has a well cushioned patented lower bumper developed here in Blytheville. "BumpEx" absorbs the baby, alerts the driver, and in no time bumper is baby free.

"Air Traffic Mike, what about the runway?" Scientific studies prove that babies hate runways. We DO believe in science here at Nanny Express.

Sheesh.

Its getting late in the day. The babies are rounded up, returned to their respective NanEx Baby Box (with generous air holes) and the process is repeated in reverse.

We know there are many more questions you might have. For FAQ's and our pricing guide, please drop us an email here and we'll send out our handy guide:



Operators are standing by.

Air Traffic Mike



Thursday, April 26, 2012

Pimp My Dog....."Jersey Style"

In to everyone's life, some dog sitting must fall.

If I have no plans, I don't think it's all that terrible.

So when Christine's daughters needed someone to watch their dogs for a spell, we agreed.

When you already have two miniature Dachshunds hanging out with you, another miniature Dachshund and a Chorkie aren't that big of a deal.

So for the last week and few days I've been herding the four of them during most of the daylight hours.

Oh, I'm sorry.

You ask, "What is a Chorkie?".

Well, back when I was a kid we called them mutts. Someone figured out in the last ten years or so that if you give an accidental cross breed a cute name, people will scoop them off the shelves.

Now don't get me wrong, there are some legitimate "hybrid dogs" out there. A friend of mine has a "Golden Doodle". That's Golden Retriever bred with a Standard Poodle.

She's a beautiful dog.

She has a curly coat of a Poodle and the color of the Retriever.

The Chorkie I'm watching has the rough, wiry coat of the Yorkshire Terrier, and the brawny build and snout of a Miniature Chihuahua.

"What's that look like", you wonder?

















Terrifying, isn't she?

She's actually a very docile little dog.

She's also quite hairy.

Christine and I decided that maybe the next time she stayed with us, we take her to the groomers and get her clipped.

She was a bit matted, so it took a while.

When I finally received the call she was ready I was sort of excited.

You know, just like the customer's on "American Restoration".

Folks, the new and improved Millie:


















Here's a "glamour shot" for those into fashion photography:


















Notice that she's now featuring a pink "Bling" collar and a North Jersey mall girl "hair poof".

I think it's going to be all the rage this Summer.

Of course, girls will be girls. The other two girls showed absolutely no signs of jealousy.


















Not Mercedes.........


















.....and certainly not Butter.

Millie's going to be the hottest thing in Philly since the Philadelphia police department thought using a concussion bomb was a good way to solve a standoff situation.

More on the "MOVE" incident here.

In the meantime, I have to herd the doggies out so they can finish improving the backyard soil.

Until the next time, all y'all take care.

Air Traffic Mike, ret.

Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Why My Oldest Brother Is The Best Oldest Brother A Guy Could Ever Have

Maybe it's because he leads by example.

Maybe it's because he cares that much.

Maybe it's because he is SUCH a "Walker".

God knows he looks like our father's family.

God knows he has all the good traits.

God knows he has all the smarts one could ask for.

God knows he has a ton of compassion.

Ask the folks in post-earthquake Haiti.

He was there within a week doing what his nursing skills allowed him to do.

The other night he walked down to Christine's house here.

He had two items.

One for me.

One for our oldest cousin, Rick.

He gave me this.


This is a picture that means a lot to me.

On the lower right side is a bald guy.

He was a decorated Vietnam War veteran.

He was also a victim of "Agent Orange" Vietnam veteran.

In college he became our *surrogate Dad*.

Art Guimond was his name.

Cancer from the "Agent Orange" exposure killed him.

The one thing it couldn't take was what he taught us.

I do my best to honor him by sharing his words.

"Don't be afraid."


Three simple words.

They got me past my own father's death.

They got me through college.

They got me through the academy at the FAA in Oklahoma City in 1984.

They got me through my divorce.

Brave words spoken by a brave man.

I don't have to look up "brave" in a dictionary. All I have to do is see a picture of Art.

Oh, the other thing Kev brought over?

This:


When our Dad passed away, his younger sister Betty gave some Walker family heirlooms to him.

As the oldest son of the oldest son, it made sense then and now.

Like I said, Kev is a "Walker" through and through.

You're looking at a slide rule in a leather case.

It belonged to Aunt Betty's first husband and the father of her first son.

He was killed flying a P-38 fight plane over Europe during World War 2.

Sadly, cousin Ricky never got to know the owner.

The man killed in the P-38 was his father.

However, cousin Ricky did do his father a great honor.

Cousin Ricky gave Uncle Rick's West Point gear to the museum at the Academy.

I cried great tears of joy for him to finally get some closure.

My mom and dad loved cousin Ricky.

I share that love.

Later this week, I'll do what Kev asked me to do.

The slide rule is going home.

Uncle Rick, you have a wonderful son.

I have no doubts he has the best of you and Aunt Betty in him.

Thank you for your service to our country and giving us cousin Ricky.

Until the next time, all y'all take care of yourselves.

Air Traffic Mike, ret.

Tuesday, April 17, 2012

A Repeat In Honor Of The Late Rhondo The Wonder Idiot

Christine and I spent a bit of time cleaning up the yard and cutting the grass this morning.

I have a lot of stuff to do this afternoon. Doing the blog would be a bit too time consuming.

Therefore, please enjoy a Rhondo "The Wonder Idiot" repeat from a couple years ago.

I hope you enjoy it.

ATM

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Yesterday was filled with good intentions, excitement, and lots of hard work.

Let's start with the first good intention and the ensuing excitement.

Now by "excitement", I mean a near death experience.

Not for me, mind you. At no time was my life in danger save for nearly having a heart attack running the lawn mower.

Yesterday morning the weather was very cool. The forecast called for rain on Sunday so I opted to cut the grass early.

I was in a bit of a hurry. I had promised my oldest brother Kevin I would help him work on his boat later in the morning.

More on that later.


Rhondo the Wonder Idiot, seen here in a happier moment, was out in the backyard on his tether tied to the porch.

I was giving him some extra outside time. He'd committed a crime against flooring the night before and I wanted him to have every chance to alleviate himself yesterday.

Neither of us knew then just how much and how fast he would alleviate himself.

In the past when I've run the lawn mower, Rhondo has stayed on the porch well out of harm's way.

Yesterday he ran off the porch to the far side of the yard. I had cut the back part of the backyard and was approaching the back porch.

With the mower still running, I told Rhondo, "C'mon Rhondo, get up on the porch boy!"

And that's when the fight broke out.

I had expected Rhondo to run back between the house and Air Traffic Mike/mower operation.

Rhondo started to do just that, but made a sudden left turn, ran around the front of the mower, and dragged his tether under the running mower. The spinning blade caught the tether.

Rhondo then started a high speed flight towards the lawn mower, screaming all the way.

I immediately let go of the lawn mower's safety handle, killing the engine.

The tether broke with Rhondo just a few inches from the cutting deck.

By my estimates Rhondo's flight lasted about two terrifying seconds.


The portion of the tether spared from the spinning mower blade.


Both sections of the tether. The section on the left was tightly wound around the mower's shaft. It measures just over six feet.

Just so we could spread the trauma out while all this was going on, Chris was inside the house in the back bedroom.

All she heard was me telling Rhondo to get up on the porch, Rhondo screaming bloody murder, and the sudden stop of the lawn mower.

She came out expecting to see little pieces of Rhondo mulch all over the yard.

Rhondo, violently quaking and uncontrollably urinating, was laying in the driveway.

I walked over and carefully examined him. There were no external injuries but he was terribly frightened.

I can't say that I wasn't shaking a bit myself.

I picked up our still peeing hero and gave him to Chris.

She took him inside where he could shake nervously for about another 30 minutes.


Rhondo getting attention at the Lawn Care Trauma Unit. Never overestimate the therapeutic value of a soft bathrobe and some soft reassurances.

Meanwhile, I untangled the tether from the mower and put it away.

That was enough lawn care for one morning.

My work at the house being complete, I headed down to the boatyard to see if my brother Kevin could use some Saturday morning trauma.

It was going to be a long day in the engine room. One of the big V-8 engines that powers his cabin cruiser needed both manifolds and risers replaced.

Now let's get one thing perfectly clear. Boat manufacturers have little regard for those who have to work on their products once they leave the factory.

This boat would be no exception.


Kev removes one of the new manifolds from its packing. This piece is cast iron and weighs around 45 pounds. Keep that in mind when you see where we had to maneuver this piece to get it into position.


Kev had already assembled the "risers" prior to my arrival. These go on top of the manifolds and vent exhaust outside the engine compartment via heavy duty duct work.


The starboard side manifold went in with little difficulty.


The same could not be said for the port side manifold. Kev's a 5'11", big shouldered man. Fortunately, he's also pretty agile. I had to pretty much lay across the engine while Kev tightened the bolts to the block.


Kev attempting to line up the riser, the gasket, and the mounting holes in the port side manifold. He was getting pretty sore from being in that cramped space mounting the manifold. I was able to get in, line the piece up, and bolt it to the manifold.

The starboard side riser was giving us fits. By this time, we'd been inside this engine compartment for a couple of hours. We were dirty, hot, and slightly aggravated at the problematic part.

There was no better time for lunch.

We drove to a local sandwich shop, grabbed a couple of hoagies, sodas, and chips. We returned to the boatyard, sat under the gazebo and ate beside the Salem River.

Eating by the river has some entertaining moments:


Only in South Jersey can you see a john boat, a canoe, and a small outboard in a race.

For the record, the canoe actually won.

Having finished our lunch and cooling off, we returned to the boat.


The starboard side riser finally went into place.


The throttle linkage was put back into place and secured.

Finally, it was time to see if all of our hard work would pay off.


We ran electric and water to the boat.


Kev replaced the air cleaner cover and hooked up the batteries.


The fully reassembled engine awaiting the start up.

The countdown was started........


Three...........

Two.............

One.............

Ignition!

Kev said it best:




The job finally complete, we reassembled the decking above the engine compartment.

It was 5:10 pm. We'd had enough.

It was off to the Moose Lodge for a couple cold beers and some badly needed air conditioning.

We parted company. I headed home to get some dinner started. Chris, having calmed Rhondo's shot nerves, had had a busy day herself.


I started the grill and put on some nice filets purchased at the Italian Market in South Philly.

Rhondo had made progress working through his stressful morning.

Last time we saw Rhondo, he looked like this:



Let's face it, our boy was so tense you couldn't put a pin up his butt with a sledgehammer.

By the time I got home, he'd regained most of his composure:


He and Butter taking a well deserved nap.

Tune in next time the "Adventures of Rhondo the Wonder Idiot" when we hear Rhondo say:


"Hey Mike, can I help you work on the snow blower?"

Until the next time, all y'all take care of yourselves.

Air Traffic Mike, ret.

Monday, April 16, 2012

Cats Have Nine Lives.....I'd Better Teach Our Newest Dog She's Not A Cat

Our veterinarian is a very skilled doctor.

He's taken good care of Christine's dogs over the years as well as the ones we've acquired along the way for the last couple years.

When we first took "Billy" in to have him bring "Billy" up to date on all his shots, he gave me a very sound piece of advice:

"It'll take a few weeks, but the true personality traits will finally emerge. Whatever you do, just be consistent with him."


That worked out very well with "Billy".

All we knew of his history was his recent past. He had been dumped off at a largely abandoned area of the county. He was forced to live off his survival instincts for about a month or so. In the process he had damned near died of malnutrition and exposure during an exceptionally brutal January.

However, Christine and I had agreed that however we were going to handle him, we we're going to do our best to maintain a steady discipline for him.

Like the good doctor said, it did take some time for him to be comfortable enough to take down his guard.

He still barks at strangers or people he hasn't seen in a while, but mostly he is a very calm and predictable little guy.

After we took "Mercedes" over the our veterinarians office, he gave us the same advice about being consistent. I assured him we would and how well the approach had worked with "Billy".


"Billy" giving "Mercedes" a refresher course on the house rules.

So the  for the first couple of weeks, we've had no problems with "Mercedes". She and "Billy" hit it off right away. Although she was nervous at first, she's pretty much settled into a pretty good routine. She seemed so calm, Christine decided she'd try letting her go out in the yard without a leash or on one of the tethers.

We've done the same thing having "Billy" off the tether. He has learned to listen and respond to our voice commands.

So it was a great shock to us when "Mercedes" darn near cashed in her adoption papers yesterday afternoon.

"Billy", through woofs and body language, will "tell" us when he needs to go out to relieve himself. He's only peed in the house once. That was my fault for not getting home sooner that day.

It was no surprise then when he "told" Christine he was ready to go out. She got up and headed to the front door. "Mercedes" was sleeping on the dog bed. hearing "Billy" and Chris heading for the door, she jumped up to join in.

At this point Christine had a lot of confidence in "Mercedes". She had never run off or chased anyone. Christine had placed "Billy" on his tether. So far, so good. Christine and I have not had both dogs off the tethers at the same time. It's just a precaution until we have complete confidence in "Mercedes" to follow our voice commands.

In hindsight we should have known to keep "Mercedes" on the tether.

A few minutes prior to Christine taking the dogs out, a nice old lady who lives nearby decided to take a bicycle ride on a beautiful, quiet Spring Sunday.

At some point, she turned up the street Christine's home is located on.

Not much before that, two nice folks turned their car and headed in the opposite direction on the same street.

Christine had just opened the door for "Mercedes" to let her out.

That's when an old lady on a bike, two nice folks out for a drive, "Mercedes", Christine and I all had what can only be described as seven seconds of terror.

"Mercedes" took off like a shot and ran at the lady on the bike. Christine ran after "Mercedes". The folks in the sedan saw it coming and got on the brakes. I just closed my eyes and waited for the sound of impact.

Fortunately, the only thing that happened was we all got a good scare.

The old lady, seeing it was a Dachshund, stopped her her bicycle. The car had stopped with room to spare. Christine had stopped short of the road. My heart had stopped somewhere in all this mess, but returned to pumping blood rather quickly. "Mercedes", with nothing left to chase, skulked back into the driveway knowing she had really just messed up.

It all happened so fast. Then again, that's how accidents happen.

Two new decisions came from all this excitement.

First, both dogs will either be on tether or leash at all times when outside. We'd like to trust them both to stay in the yard, but until we have complete voice control of both, that's the new rule.

Period.

Second, we're taking price estimates on fencing in the backyard.
















I don't think she wants to go through that again.

I know we don't.

Until the next time, all y'all take care of yourselves.

Air Traffic Mike, ret.

Monday, April 9, 2012

I Think April Is My Favorite Month

Hey, we all have our favorites.

I know a number of people who love the month of September. The onerous heat of Summer usually breaks by then. You can still go to the beach or lake, but all the amateurs/tourists/people who should never own a boat or watercraft are long gone. It's funny, but my opinion of what I'd like to see happen to them changes by the month as Summer progresses:

May: "I hope everybody has a safe week."


June: "I hope the idiots don't kill themselves."


July: "I hope the %$#@&*%$ idiots don't kill some innocent people."


August: "DIE IDIOTS, DIE!!!!!!!!!"


As much as I like those months, in spite of what I've seen happen on the water, I find them only "okay". October is a nice month, but I find it a bit melancholy. The crisp air is nice, but the shorter days portend the approach of Winter. November with it's cold rains, December and January, with their snows and mostly bleary days have a tendency to make me sad. I've had many bad things happen in the Winter months. I don't "dread" them. I would never fly in the face of God by taking time as such, for granted. At the same time, I really don't feel like I can embrace the time of year.

I don't know ANYBODY who says, "February is my favorite month.". If they exist, they all must be locked up in the asylum.

March is okay. Especially this year. The weather has been very kind to us here. I have never been in South Jersey where we could, and have opened the windows this soon.

So here we are, in South Jersey, in April. The flowering trees, forsythia, and bulb plants always put on a show. This year, the show has been nothing short of spectacular.

Right now, it's a breezy 65 degree day. Perfect for opening up the windows and airing the house out. Perfect for a retired guy to make braised pork in red sauce. Perfect for a young retired guy to sit in the kitchen, listen to the radio, and type his blog wearing a pair of jeans, socks, and nothing else.

Even "herding Dachshunds" is an even more pleasant chore on a day like today.

Oh, by the way, "Billy" and his new best friend "Mercedes" are doing wonderfully.

"Mercedes" acts like she's been here all her life and "Billy" really treats her as she has as well.

Yesterday, Christine's daughters dropped off their two dogs on the way to have Easter dinner with their father's family.

Three Dachshunds and a Yorkie mix.

I have to tell you, it was pretty funny.

Since it was just Christine and I, we made sure the doggies had a bit of the Smithfield ham I baked.

Who doesn't love watching a dog tear into ham?

The girls came back later in the evening to have dessert with us and visit with their mom. They both have such bright and exciting futures ahead of them. It's really enjoyable for me to watch what they do and listen to them talk about what's going on.

One thing I have always believed to be true: "There's no goal that can not be achieved when you put forth your best effort."

I'm positive Christine shares my optimism and enthusiasm.

There's still 2/3 of the month of April left.

If the first 1/3 of the month is any indication, it's going to be the best one ever.

Step out into the world, take a great big deep breath, and exhale.

It's a treat so few of us take advantage of.

Until the next time, all y'all take care of yourselves.

Air Traffic Mike, ret.

Friday, April 6, 2012

What Was My Worst Easter Ever?

Honestly, any holiday can go horribly wrong.

I point to the "St. Valentine's Day Massacre" as a prime example.

I'm probably not the only person to have had a "loved one" pass away on Christmas. In my case, it was my great great Aunt Ann. She was my great Grandmother's twin sister. It wasn't unexpected. She had been in the nursing home for some time.

To my grandmother's credit, she spared my family the news until the day after Christmas.

Still, it put a damper on the holiday season.

Then there was that one Easter. No matter how bad other holidays have been since, they will always come up short of THAT Easter weekend.

Maybe "bad" isn't such a good adjective here.

It wasn't ALL that bad.

It was just........different.

It all started off on Ash Wednesday. We all got off to a strong start. We all donned our church clothes and walked over to the Catholic Church. It was only a couple blocks, and besides, it was a beautiful morning. We went to the morning Mass, got palm ashes placed on our foreheads, and headed home to spend a rare school day away from classes.

Dad decided to go into work late that morning. He much preferred the peace and quiet of the sprawling duPont  factory to the "peace and quiet" of five rambunctious boys. Since it was such a nice day out, Mom encouraged us to get out and play. With us out from under foot she could get important things done like tons of laundry, vacuuming, and planning dinner.

It was sometime during that day Mom, while talking to one of her friends on the phone, heard about something that would set that Easter apart from all others.

Of course, we were oblivious to it at the time.

It didn't even seem unusual when we heard Mom and Dad talking in hushed tones after Dad walked in the door late in the day.

Hushed tones weren't unusual between them. After all, like my oldest brother remarked, "Every time they start whispering, I always end up with another darn brother.".

Being the only one in the house with a bedroom to myself, I started to get nervous. I had kind of become used to the solitude.

Dinner came and went as did the days of Lent. We soon forgot about Mom and Dad whispering and there was no talk of me moving my bedroom furniture. Life had pretty much returned to normal.

Then the Saturday prior to Easter weekend came. Mom and Dad got us all up at the same time and told us to get dressed.

We all thought we were going to make a surprise visit to one of our sets of grandparents or something good like that.

It was even better.

Upon our arrival in the living room for pre-departure inspection, my Dad announces, "Boys, you're all going with Mom and I to Delaware this morning. We have a surprise for you.".

Nobody loves surprises more than children and we were no exceptions.

We piled into our beloved Chevrolet Impala station wagon and headed out.

We all felt the excitement in the air.

My younger brother asked, "Are we going to see Uncle Bob and Aunt Lil?"

"No.", my Dad tersely replied.

I asked, "Are we going to see Aunt Betty and Uncle Rodman?".

Dad, still terse as ever, "NO!".

My older brother asked, "Are we going shopping?"

"I TOLD you guys, it's a SURPRISE!!!!!!", was all he could say while gritting his teeth.

We tried to prevail upon Mom for an answer, but none was forthcoming.

Finally we settled in and accepted our fate.

Unfortunately, we had gotten on Dad's last nerve. Even idle child chatter was rubbing him the wrong way by this time.

He turned and looked at Mom and asked, "Betty, where did you say the orphanage is?"

That shut us up until we got to where we were really going.

It seems, in talking with one of her friends on Ash Wednesday, Mom had found out about this new Chocolatier. She had found out that for Easter they would be making religious figures from chocolate. After discussing it over with Dad, they thought it would be a good idea to have some Bible based chocolate figures in our Easter baskets.

I thought to myself, "Wow!! When the Easter Bunny sees that we have these in our baskets already, he's REALLY going to load us down with goodies!!!".

See, even at an early age, I understood the TRUE meaning of Easter.

We jumped from the station wagon and ran through the front doors like........well.......kids in a candy store.

Dad, seeing that we might be just a little too excited gave those words that always calmed us down, "Every one of you STOP!!!!!!".

Having restored order to the troops, Dad and Mom took us up to the case with all the religious themed chocolate figures.

To a man, we were all immediately inspired. We had never seen that much chocolate in one place.

Oh, and the workmanship on the figurines wasn't bad either.

My brother Gary was immediately taken by the "Last Supper".  It had to be about eight pounds worth of chocolate. The table alone had to be an additional two pounds on its own.

With a limited budget and visions of cavities racing through his head, Dad acknowledged that it was indeed an impressive piece, but nixed the idea.

"You can each pick out one figurine.", he said.

What to choose?

There was the Virgin Mary in white chocolate, a Joseph in a deep dark chocolate, all the various Apostles, and the star of the case, Jesus in any chocolate style you could think of.

Frankly, the Jesus in milk chocolate with raisins was pretty disturbing.

However we all noticed, and maybe rightfully so, the Jesus' figures were a bit larger than the others.

Children understand "value" as it applies to candy. Well, at least we seemed to.

All five of us immediately started clamoring for a Jesus each.

Dad looked at the smiling store owner and asked, "How much are they?".

The grinning man said, "Twenty one dollars each.".

Needless to say, Dad was quite taken back by the steep price. His voice went up a bit as he said, "Twenty one dollars EACH????? How did you come to THAT price for them??????"

The guy never batted an eye as he responded, "Judas.".

Before Dad could catch his breath, the good man said, "I have some smaller ones in stock. Their prices are in line with the other figurines in the case."

As the color was returning to Dad's face, we returned to scoping out the rest of the figurines. It was quite impressive. Besides the Apostles, Virgin Mary, Joseph, and Jesus, there were some of the more popular Saints. I suggested to Mom that she buy Dad a chocolate St. Christopher (then the patron Saint of travelers). She pointed out that chocolate on a warm, metal dashboard might not be a good thing.

So many good ideas get shot down by logic.

Being fairly bright kids, we decided that it might be in our best interests to each get a different figurine just to cover our Holy/Easter Bunny bases.

My oldest brother picked out a Joseph in milk chocolate.

My second brother picked out a Virgin Mary in white chocolate.

Knowing my younger brother really wanted a Jesus, I deferred and selected a John the Baptist with rice krispies.

My younger brother, grateful that I had let him have his way, selected a milk chocolate Jesus with nuts. It was at that point that my oldest brother asked Dad, "What does Jesus need nuts for?".

I stood there waiting for the bolt of lightning to take him out.

It never came, proving that God MUST have invented "comedy" at some point in the first days.

My youngest brother, being a little to young to know much about the faith randomly selected a milk chocolate guy holding a bird. Mom told him, "That's a good one. That's St. Francis of Assisi.".

My older brother whispered something to our youngest. His face lit up.

It would take four years for him to find out that St. Francis was NOT the "Patron Saint of Magicians".

Happy with our selections and with our parents obviously ready to go, we loaded back in to the car. Mom decided that it MIGHT be a good idea for her to keep all the chocolate stuff up front with her.

I don't know where "Moms" get that intuition stuff, but our Mom had it to spare.

Now besides church, there are certain traditions that take place on the week leading into Easter. We decorated the inside of the house, cleaned our Easter baskets, dyed Easter eggs, had our little white shirts, black ties, and tartan blazers clean and ready, and of course were ready for Mass on Good Friday and for Sunrise Mass on Easter Sunday.

There was but one tradition I think we all agreed we hated.

For some reason, to our Mom, for us kids Good Friday = Fish stick Friday.

I have yet to see a long rectangular fish come out of any body of water I've ever fished. To this day if I get even downwind of one, I begin to gag. Let's face it, if even ketchup can't salvage it you shouldn't be eating it. Had they served fish sticks at the Last Supper, the first crucifixion would have been the chef.

I'm just saying.

Anyway Good Friday, fish sticks, Mass, and all, came and went.

Saturday was here. To us boys, it was "Showtime"!!!!!

Mom got out the baskets. Dad went to the utility room. He brought out the plastic Easter "grass" and the bag of chocolate religious figurines. We had sort of wondered where he and Mom stashed them. The utility room was a perfect place. It was below ground level so it stayed very cool in the Spring. It also had a lock on it, thereby keeping Jesus and company very safe.

If it can be said this way, us boys handled the chocolate figurines with a great deal of reverence. During the week, Mom had told us the stories behind the figurines. While Jesus, Mary, and Joseph's stories were fairly common knowledge to us, the stories of St. Francis and St. John the Baptist were not.

We all mixed up our own colors of Easter "grass", organized our colorful dyed Easter eggs, and Mom carefully set our chocolate icons into their places of honor in our respective baskets.

There they were. All in a little row of cheap, woven baskets. An absolute powerhouse of a Holy Army right there on the dining room table, waiting for the Easter Bunny to salute.

It's no surprise that we kept finding excuses to leave the recreation room and go upstairs just to take a look at them.

However, as we ALL know, the Easter Bunny (like his close ally Santa Claus) will NOT show up if you stay awake.

Like Santa, he "flies solo".

That's just how the big Bunny rolls.

As our bedtimes came, we happily sauntered off to bed.

Just before my bedtime came up, Dad asked me to let our dog, "Rusty" in. Now "Rusty" was normally an outside dog. He had a doghouse in the backyard, and normally that's where he'd stay unless the weather was really bad. That night it was a really blustery, miserable Spring rain. I let "Rusty" in, dried him off with an old towel, and watched as he ran around the house like a banshee.

That was the main reason "Rusty" was an outside dog.

He made "excitable" look sleepy.

At that point, "Rusty" was no longer my problem. He'd eventually settle down like he always did. When he finally would fall asleep, Dad would put him in the half bath off the recreation room before him and Mom went to bed.

The last thing I remember that night was hearing my two older brothers climbing the staircase on the way to their bedroom. Living on the third level of a four level split level house pretty much lets you hear everything.

As was my wont, I woke up early. I was wide awake by 5:30 am. Not wanting to possibly catch the Easter Bunny doing his thing, I turned on my desk lamp and quietly played with some of my Matchbox cars. It wasn't long before I heard my older brothers come down the stairs. I went across the hall and woke up our two youngest brothers.

As I came down the stairs I heard "Rusty" scratching at the door of the half bath. My older brothers looked at me and gave me the "You're younger than us, YOU DO IT!!!" look.

Hey, I didn't mind. "Rusty" was my pal.

I opened the door. I didn't even get a chance to turn the light on. "Rusty" came out like he was on fire.

I closed the door to the bathroom, ran to the back door, and let him out.

Promptly, I forgot all about "Rusty". Easter day was here. We'd be getting ready for Mass soon.

If I was going to find my Easter basket before church, I had to get with the guys and start the hunt.

In short order, my oldest brother found his. I must say, the Easter Bunny was VERY impressed with Kevin's selection of Joseph. There were jelly beans, coconut creme eggs, peanut butter cups, solid chocolates, and a big hollow chocolate egg with chocolate covered butter cream candies inside.

If this was a harbinger of things to come, it was going to be quite a haul.

Next, our youngest brother's basket was located. As with Joseph, the Easter Bunny was very pleased to see his old friend, St. Francis.  The Easter Bunny left John a big chocolate bunny, a bunch of marshmallow "Peeps", Hershey's "Kisses", butter cream candies, coconut cream eggs, and a mound of spicy jelly beans.

Two for five and thing just kept getting better.

By this time, the five of us running around like the Marx Brothers had awakened Mom and Dad.

Dad informed us that we had ten minutes to keep looking and then it would be time to get ready for church.

With about two minutes to go, my older brother found his basket. It was obvious that we had scored big points with the Easter Bunny.  Bruce had a very narrow list of likes when it came to food, candy being no exception. He had the biggest, prettiest chocolate covered butter cream egg, spicy jelly beans, and Hershey's "Kisses". Not a big selection, but the sheer volume was insane.

As much as my younger brother and I wanted to keep looking for our baskets, it was time to get dressed for Mass. The bad thing about being an excited kid who hasn't found his Easter basket yet is that it was a High Mass. That means longer, more ornate, and the burning of incense.

What else could a distracted, antsy kid ask for?

How about a priest who is a bad "time manager"?

Bless his heart, Father Quinlan had a habit of running long on a normal Mass. That morning we should have changed his name to "Father Hoagie". The man was on a roll.

Just about the time we thought "Sunrise Mass" was going to end up as "Sunset Mass", one of the other priests came in the side door that opened abeam the altar. He quietly got Father Quinlan's attention. That put the good Father back on track. Within 30 minutes we got those words that make Catholics everywhere exhale and make them mindlessly reach for their car keys:

"The Mass is ended, go in peace."


We all walked home, Gary and I leading the way. We were each still without our baskets. We knew that even with Mom and Dad both cooking breakfast, we had a good bit of time before it would be ready.

We had a plan.

We knew we couldn't count on much help from our other three brothers. Not because they weren't good brothers. They were then and that never changed. However, it had already been a long morning, they had their baskets, and it was time for the "Three Stooges" to come on one of the local UHF channels.

Gary and I would team up, and not part company until we found both baskets.

After we arrived home, we changed into our regular street clothes and got to work.

A bonus for us not having found our baskets was that one of the older guys would have to feed and water "Rusty".

We searched high and low. Bedroom to bedroom. Closet to closet. Level by level. We even checked in the full bathroom figuring maybe the Easter Bunny left them in the vanity.

No such luck.

Just as we were about to give up, our oldest brother called out from downstairs.

Our baskets had been found.

What came next became the "Easter Miracle".

We flew down the stairs. I think we covered both flights of stairs in about two steps each.

Gary got ahead of me and went in the bathroom first.

That's when he yelled, "SOMEONE STOLE JESUS!!!!!!!!!!!!".

Sadly, he wasn't wrong.

Where Jesus had once stood, there was nothing but mashed down Easter "grass". The Easter Bunny had left Gary a big chocolate coconut cream egg, but it was laying on the floor in front of the basket.

By this time, Mom and Dad had arrived on the scene.

I can tell you that they were as perplexed as the rest of us. At first, they thought one of us was pulling a trick on Gary. I had an alibi. I was with Gary when Jesus was declared "missing". John was too young to come up with such a devious joke. Bruce was upstairs changing.

By process of elimination, Kevin fell into the "Suspect" column. However, one thing about Kevin both then and now, he's a very honest guy. In a serious situation, if he says he's "innocent", he's innocent. An honest man, through and through.

Mom and Dad both knew that.

Bruce came down and saw what was going on. It took a second, but he had a theory.

"Maybe Jesus pushed the coconut cream egg out of the way and ascended into Heaven."


I'm not sure who busted up first, but I think it was a four way tie between Mom, Dad, Kevin, and Bruce.

I was thinking, "Wow, it's a chocolate miracle.".

Dad, regaining his composure said, "There has to be something to it more than that!".

Gary left the bathroom, very distraught. Mom picked up his basket from the near side of the vanity. I went in to see the scene.

That's when I found MY basket on the far side of the vanity.

It was my turn to to yell.

"JOHN THE BAPTIST IS MISSING HIS HEAD!!!!!!!!!!".

Dad came walking back.

"What??????????", he said almost angry.

I reached down, picked up my basket and sure enough, there was St. John the Baptist laying there with nothing above the collar.

Now Dad was SURE there was some shenanigans going on among the brothers.

All I knew was that Jesus was missing and he might have taken a chunk of St. John with him.

The mystery would have continued except for one thing.

In the midst of all the excitement, Bruce had forgotten to do what Dad told him to do. That was to go out back and feed and water "Rusty".

Dad, obviously confused and more than aggravated, reminded Bruce to go out and take care of the dog. Bruce grabbed the bag of dog food and headed for the backyard. He came back in quickly and yelled for Dad to come out back.

Like Dad really needed ONE more thing to go wrong on Easter morning.

Out he went.

He came back in quickly, picked up St. John, and took him to the trashcan outside.

That was the last I'd see of St. John.

As for milk chocolate Jesus with nuts, his disposal was even less kind.

It seems "Rusty" liked chocolate, but it didn't like him.

Maybe it was divine intervention.

Most likely it was just nature.

A few weeks of Spring storms washed away the poorly digested remains of milk chocolate Jesus with nuts, St. John the Baptist's head, and "Rusty's" sins.

Were it only that easy for the rest of us.

With one of the great mysteries of life solved, we all went to the dining room to enjoy breakfast.

Okay, so we were down a couple of Martyrs, but in the big scheme of things it was really not that big of a deal. There was plenty of candy to go around and besides, like any large family we had no issues in sharing with each other.

You know, that probably would have been enough excitement for one day for any normal family.

Unfortunately, we weren't normal.

Okay, compared to us we were normal.

Sort of.

After breakfast, we had the usual assembly line of dish washing/dish drying. At that time, with us boys all being still fairly young and short, Mom would wash the dishes, two of us would "volunteer" to dry them (as selected to "volunteer" by Mom and Dad), and Dad would put them away. Seeing as how we would be using them again for a big Easter dinner, Dad "volunteered" two more of us to place the freshly dried dishes and silverware back on the dining room table.

I'm sure Dad would have loved to take care of that chore, but he was busy making sure the Easter ham was doing well outside. It would be the only time Dad ever cooked a whole ham on the grill over low coals. Not because he had an inspiration that a slow cooked ham over charcoal might be a good idea, it was mostly due to Mom needing the oven for a special Easter "project".

It seems Mom had run across a really neat bread mold just in time for the holiday season. Add freshly baked bread to the number of baked side dishes Mom had planned and Dad and his ham were pretty much on their own. Due to Mom's enthusiasm, even boiling the ham on the stove top was out of the question.

Everything was going smoothly right up to the moment until Mom sprung the new bread pan on Dad and us boys.

Something has to be a "first" and something has to be a "last". In rare moments, one thing can be both simultaneously.

The "Jesus On The Cross" bread pan was one of the rarest of rare moments.

We all looked at it in awe, shock, and amazement.

Dad muttered something. I'm pretty sure that's why he led the charge to "confession" the next Saturday.

However, today WAS Easter. He was going to support Mom as best he could regardless.

Us boys decided that maybe standing near the kitchen might not be such a good idea. Lightning can hit anywhere and the kitchen seemed to be the next likely place. I can't speak for my brothers, but I know i said a quick prayer for the kitchen's and Mom's safety. The five of us boys scattered out and went about the business of being kids.

In the meantime, Mom made the dough and as per the bread mold instructions, placed the dough into the mold.

Now anyone who has made a yeast dough knows that you have to punch down the dough after the initial yeast reaction occurs. Mom had placed the "Jesus On The Cross" bread mold (filled with a nice smooth yeast dough) on the dining room table. After about an hour, she asked Dad to go check on the dough to see if it was time to punch it down.

Maybe Dad was having a "funny moment", maybe he had just suffered a small stroke, or just maybe it was the second "Bloody Mary" he had with him as he came in from the slowly cooking ham on the grill. I never got around to asking him so I'll never know. Mom asked Dad how the dough in the "Jesus On The Cross" bread pan looked.

We all heard Dad give a poorly restrained smirk.

He turned back towards the kitchen where Mom was neck deep in side dishes and needed nothing else but a simple answer.

Thanks to vodka, she got one.

"Betty", he said loudly, "Christ has risen!".

Mom, biting her tongue so as not to egg Dad on, said in a very sharp and mildly perturbed way, "Well, could you PLEASE punch the dough down?".

I'm not sure what other's definition of "punch down the dough" is, but Dad flattened the heck out of the dough in the "Jesus On The Cross" bread pan.

I know it looked pretty darn flat in there. I was standing next to Dad when he did it.

Mom asked me from the kitchen, "Michael, how does it look?".

I told her it looked pretty flat.

Before Mom could say anything else, Dad chimed in, "Don't worry. Christ will rise again.".

It was at that moment I tied my then all time record for making "the Sign of the Cross".


That would be the last time Dad was allowed to help Mom with bread making.


The rest of the early afternoon was surprisingly quiet.

In fact, it wasn't until dinner that fate would be tempted again.

Now I will say this about my parents. They were both excellent cooks. Dad brought the slow cooked ham to the table. He had basted it with his mustard based BBQ sauce. The BBQ sauce had copious amounts of brown sugar and red wine vinegar in it. The ham looked like it just came off a magazine cover. Mom's side dishes were equally as appealing. Green beans, candied yams with a marshmallow topping, baked macaroni and cheese, creamed peas, glazed carrots, and of course the "Jesus On The Cross" bread still in the bread pan.

We all held our breath as Mom picked up the "Jesus On The Cross" bread pan, gently leaned it against the bread plate, and inverted it.

It was a 50/50 shot that it was going to stick. Not that it was a poorly made pan, that was just Mom's baking average.

She tapped the bottom of the pan with a butter knife and slowly lifted the pan away from the bread plate.

She breathed a sigh of relief as the bread broke free. There, for one and all of us to have was a fine rendition of hot Cross Jesus.

Not I'm sure some of you are thinking to yourselves, "My God, how could this day get any more weird?"

Well that would be as we started to pass things around the dinner table.

As in any large gathering at any large table, not everything is nearby to your dinner plate. Such was the situation at our holiday gatherings, this one not being an exception.

The ham slices came around first. I must say again that this was one of Dad's masterpieces. The outside was crispy with a tangy flavor and the ham itself was "melt in your mouth" cooked.

Next, the mashed potatoes and candied yams made the rounds. With those two served at the same table it is a matter of "one or the other or BOTH!!!!" with most of us opting for both.

After that it became a matter of passing the mac and cheese and veggies around to whoever wanted it next. Passing across the table was never frowned upon, it was just a matter of who asked for whatever it was next.

Finally it was time to pass the bread.

Our yeasty Saviour was closest to me.

I picked up the Holy Serving Platter.

Then, I had an idea.

It was as bad as it was funny.

When confronted by temptation as such, one must follow their conscience.

Unfortunately, I had yet to embrace that concept at the tender age of 7.

I knew that none of us would or could eat until after we said grace.

I also knew that my maternal grandmother always said, "No matter what you say, if you end it with the word "Amen", it counts as a prayer.".

Add in a dash of  "call and response" Catholic prayers and my plan was complete.

My brother Bruce asked me to pass the bread.

I slowly held out the plate bearing our Lord and savory Saviour and uttered those words that nobody else, to my knowledge had thought of.

As the plate reached my arm's length, Bruce was leaning over reaching to take it from me.

To his and the rest of the family's surprise I said, "The body of Christ.".

Being good Catholics, and out of sheer instinct the rest of the family (my parents included) all said, "Amen" simultaneously.

Before Mom and Dad could react, Bruce pointed out that we had all said "Amen" and unless Mom Mom was a fibber, that constituted a prayer.

I think that still stands as a family record for the shortest prayer at dinner.

Now I have just two more things to tell all y'all.

I was ill on 1 April.

April Fool's (belated) and Happy Easter to one and all.

Until the next time, all y'all take care of yourselves.

Air Traffic Mike, ret.